On the couch with Kat…

I put up a post the other day for all my readers to send me any questions they want to ask as I get a lot of the same questions on Twitter/Facebook etc. so rather then keep repeating myself they will all be laid out here! Thank you to everyone who has supported my blog by spreading the word, re-tweeting on Twitter, sharing on their own blog or simply reading it. I’m so grateful for your support! So the questions came in thick and fast (ha ha) and I’m so glad to have so many interesting and amazing people follow me… So here are your questions! As promised, they’ve all been anonymously. A big thank you to all that submitted.

1What is your favourite position and why? I love being in control so the reverse cowgirl is a huge turn on for me, especially with clients as I sometimes feel they get a little uncomfortable looking me in the eye! I know exactly what I’m doing, I’ve got my ‘twerk’ down to a fine art and my yoga really helps me flip my body around to give him a perfect view. I adore all positions, sex is so much fun but reverse cowgirl has to be my absolute favourite. I love how I can control the speed, depth and rhythm and for me it’s always a guaranteed orgasm within minutes!

2. Where is your favourite place for a client to ejaculate on you? I love having my boobs drenched in cum, it’s a like a medal to say ‘job well done’ haha! Clients obviously adore this too as my boobs are possibly my best feature and I love to make the most of them. I love circling my nipples after a client has covered me with his seed, it feels so good and I’ve heard it’s good for the skin… Another popular place for clients is my ass, as I can’t see it fully I don’t like this as much but I love the feeling on it dripping down onto my pussy.

3. What do you charge and how do you price your services? I can’t reveal this, sorry! I’ve been in the game for so long I don’t really have a set rate, I have a sturdy base of regular clients and they spoil me rotten. I only take a fresh client if one of my escort friends can’t take the job or if that person has asked for me specifically and they are known from a reliable source. Gone are the days when I have to spend time researching a new client and trawling conferences and showbiz parties to ‘pick up’ fresh business. I’m an woman in this world!

4. What did you want to do when you were growing up? I wanted to be a pilot. I was very lucky when I was younger that my parents were able to take me on holiday once a year to somewhere hot, interesting and far from home. I actually enjoyed the flying and airport process more than the holiday itself! I loved the hustle and bustle of travelling, and it seemed to amazing to me the fact that you could be in a completely different world in just a few hours. I was totally fascinated at just how aeroplanes worked and like a complete geek I had a flight simulator on my computer and spent hours playing it as a teenager… I was set to go to college to study travel & tourism which would get me into university but sex and money distracted me and I found myself working the pole at a local strip club and here I am today.

5. How did you get into the escort business? Like most escorts, I started as a stripper and quickly became aware of what was going on around me. I was just 18 when I started dancing and whilst I was completely comfortable with the scene and lifestyle I didn’t like the fact I had to give the house most of my money. A lot of the girls were going home with guys, it happens all over the place you just have to be discreet about it. The more expensive the club, the more seedy goings on are happening behind the scenes. I have some stories to tell about my days as a stripper… On the whole it was a lot of fun, I made so many friends and learnt to be tough from very early on. I was always very headstrong and would never let anyone make me do anything I didn’t want to but my transition from stripper to escort was completely my decision. I was lucky enough to have a few friends already on the scene and I learnt a LOT from them! So yeah, it pretty much started out going home with a few regular guys who I had got to know and then I was working part time under the security of a madam and once my book was built enough I spread my wings and went full time on my own and haven’t looked back!

6. Do your friends know what you do, how do they feel about it? Well most of my friends have a similar story to mine, we all started as strippers or in porn so it’s not really a big deal to them. My Mum knows (we’re very close) and is completely fine with it although she doesn’t really like talking about it and it’s not the kind of thing you want to shout from the rooftops! I really don’t see it as a big deal, I have an amazing lifestyle and have worked damn hard for what I have but I have to respect society and I do keep it low… If I meet someone at a family party I tell them I work in an office and as it’s such a boring job no one asks for more details haha. My Dad is not so keen, we used to be very close but that all fell apart a few years ago. We hardly talk and I think it’s fair to say he’s ashamed of me… I found that very hard to deal with at first but then I thought well, I could be relying on the government to pay for me and sitting at home all day wasting my life playing my Playstation in bed, would that make you proud of me? Escorts come in all shapes and sized, next time you’re on the bus/train etc you could be sitting next to one!

7. Do you genuinely enjoy what you do? On the whole, yes! I’m in a really good position where I can pick and choose where/when and who I work with. I have a stream of steady, amazing clients who I now class as good friends and I’ve done things most people only dream about. I live in a fabulous apartment in central London, fly all over the world and get treated like royalty, what’s not to love? The only sting is I’ve never really had a serious relationship. I had a few flings in my earlier years as a stripper but even then guys don’t take you seriously and just see you as a sex object. I try to keep my job and my feelings apart but sometimes emotions creep in and it does make things tough. I’ve fallen in love with a client before and we tried to make it work but he just couldn’t get over the fact I was sleeping with other people and had no intention of giving it up. This is my life, this is how I make money and I’ve always said to myself I would never rely on anyone, for anything. It’s taken me so long to get where I’m at now I would be a fool to throw it all away. I had a recent drama with a client in which I told him how I felt… He had been seeing me for around 18 months and took me everywhere. We got on so well my heart was starting to whisper to me that maybe he could be the one. To cut a long story short, he crushed that dream and now we are no longer in touch. I have feelings and emotions just like everyone else and that threw me off track for a while, he’s constantly on my mind but I’m jut trying to keep busy and not think about him. I am worried I will reach the stage where this is all I know and I’ve never experienced true love but I guess not all that glitters is gold.

8. You look amazing, how do you take care of yourself and what would you class as your best feature? My body is my money maker! I enjoy taking care of myself and I’m in the gym almost daily. I take a morning yoga class (when I can be bothered to get up!) and love a good cardio workout to make me sweat! My gym is amazing and like my second home, I love swimming too and do regular aqua aerobics classes which tone every part of your body. I would be in much better shape if it wasn’t for the fact I love good food and cupcakes! I barely drink as it’s not professional when I’m working and I’m not sure I enjoy the actual feeling of being drunk. Underneath it all I’m very ladylike and being drunk and stumbling around really isn’t my scene. My diet is really good I live right by a fresh market so most of my food comes from there but if I’m taken to a fancy restaurant I feel no shame in having the works! My best feature would have to be my breasts, I know most would say my ass but I love displaying my boobs in a nice tight top and I love the feeling of them bouncing up and down when I walk. I have a bad habit of running down the stairs in my apartment block holding my boobs just to feel them jiggle haha. My nipples are very sensitive, I love them being licked, sucked and nibbled on… They give me such amazing pleasure my boobs are definitely my best feature to me.

9. Why did you want to start blogging? Well, I kind of feel I want to explore other things as I’ve been doing this for pretty much my whole adult life. I wake up every day with a smile on my face and I know not a lot of people can easily say that. I want to do some charity work abroad, go backpacking and do the things I feel I missed out on. I’ve had so many adventures and have so many stories to tell it just seemed natural for me to create some sort of diary I could share with the world of what it’s really like to be an escort. We get so much press, I understand the darker side of the sex industry is what the media are interested in but there are a lot of women like me who genuinely enjoy what they do and are completely safe and are completely in control of what they do. I always said to myself if I ever start to feel like I’m done with it all then I would simply stop and go with what my heart tells me to do. Right now I’m really interested in living abroad and exploring parts of the world I’m yet to see, I may even train as an English teacher! The world is my oyster, and a big part of me wants to make my Mum proud.

10. What is your favourite sexual act and why? If you follow me on tumblr you will know I’m a big fan of oral sex! I absolutely adore going down on a guy, the feel of his penis on my lips, the smell and taste of him… Everything. I’ve honed my skills in this department very well and I’m pretty confident I could make pretty much any guy cum in seconds! I love the feel of a pulsating cock and the whole idea of getting a guy off without touching him really gets me off. In turn I love having my pussy licked! There is nothing quite like the feeling of an eager tongue sinking inside your pussy, it’s incredible. I could spend forever and a day in a 69!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I hope that’s helped you get to know me a bit better…

Love, Kat.

Ask Kat!

Hi guys,

Just a quick post to thank you for all your support for my blog, I really feel like I’ve connected with my followers and love interacting with all of you. One thing I seem to be receiving a lot of is questions about myself and what it’s like being an escort etc. and as I can’t fit the full answers in a single tweet I thought I would open up a Q&A type post of which you can ask me whatever you want (anonymously) and I will try to answer all of them for Monday! Please send your questions to escortmemories@gmail.com. Make them interesting, be as explicit as you want!